Have You Written Your List?

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So Today……Guess What?

IT’S Our 21st Wedding Anniversary Today!

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Thinking over the years, we have come to the realization that everyone is different and nothing will ever change that. People are always going to be Right and Wrong in the things they do or say as an active part of society. People will always feel Anger and Love towards others who they cross paths with in their lifetime. What has to be realized and done is that everyone take responsibility for who they are and own up to their differences and improve themselves accordingly.

Relationships whether individual, friendship, family, couples can always use improvement. I have come up with a post that will make people think twice as to how different people can be. Me and my husband are celebrating 21 years of marriage today and we’ve decided to write a list of the positive and negatives of what we admire and dislike about one another. We’ve exchanged our list with one another and talked about it and realized things about one another that we have overlooked over the years.

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Being together for so long and the fights, battles and making a way back to one another has just made us stronger individuals for it. We are committed to working on our faults individually and spend the rest of our lives appreciating each other’s essence.

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We want to share with you guys our list because we think that it is important to make ourselves vulnerable to compliments as well as criticism. We are trying to grow in any way possible and we take it one day at a time.

This is Mine for Him….

I Love….

  1. He takes care of his children financially and emotionally.
  2. He makes me laugh and is very charming.
  3. He is a great cook.
  4. He is passionate about being successful and helping his family reach their goals.
  5. He gives me compliments about my looks without asking.
  6. He is very considerate and sweet to senior citizens to others.
  7. He is a lover of all animals.
  8. He is loyal and doesn’t hold grudges.

I Do Not Love…..

  1. When he complains about everything from dawn to dusk.
  2. When he is late for everything that is not important to his interest.
  3. When he ask advice about something and then says you’re wrong just to see what you’ll say.
  4. When he doesn’t have trust in anyone including his family.
  5. When he apologizes for behavior that he repeats over and over with no adjustment.
  6. When he is pessimistic about everything in life, nothing but failure before hope.
  7. When he redirects feelings or experiences one has back on himself to get attention.
  8. When he uses his age as an excuse to prove how much smarter he is.

This is His for Me…..

I Love…..

  1. She is organized and detail- oriented.
  2. She is smart, creative and intelligent.
  3. She is independent.
  4. She is funny and has a good sense of humor.
  5. She is giving and unselfish.
  6. She is not materialistic.
  7. She keeps up her physical appearance.
  8. She keeps the house clean.

I Do Not Love….

  1. She stays mad too long periods of time.
  2. She is too quick to levy punishment on kids.
  3. She is uncompromising when you move furniture or rooms to new planograms.
  4. She drives car brakes and accelerator heavy footed.
  5. She always put more stuff in shopping cart at store that wasn’t on list originally.
  6. She won’t commit to specifically scheduled intimacy dates and times but would rather be spontaneous.
  7. She watches too many shows with real life sadness, unhappiness, and despair.
  8. She doesn’t relish, reminisce, talk about things from our family’s 22 year timeline of fun times and vacations enough…the fun past memories are important to me.

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Life is Precious…Live It!!

Last year, I wrote a post called Marriage and Relationships Are Like Owning a Business and it talked a lot about how every relationship has to be attentive to and like anything when one doesn’t pay attention to the books or communicate, it all goes haywire and it can end. See link below:

Marriage and Relationships-February 14, 2019

If I had any advice to give to people getting married or are looking for one thing to remember throughout their adventure together is:

“Prepare for the fight of your life. You will have blessings and challenges, look at one another and always remember the first time you fell in love”.

Okay so, that’s it!!

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31 Day Challenge-Day 19

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Okay so for this challenge, I asked my loving family who knows my comings and goings and how I operate. I told them to give me one thing that they find is one of my worst habits. Here we go:

My husband Brian said:

“You do not close the lids or put lids on things tightly.”

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Okay, so, in my defense, I do this and it is not a good habit. Sometimes I spill stuff but other times I get lucky and don’t. As to closing the lids on jars, I can’t do it that tightly because of carpal tunnel and I can open lids that great so I use a can opener or ask someone to do it for me…lol

My oldest son Brian said:

“You put things in the shopping cart at the grocery store that are not on the list.”

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Okay, again, in my defense, I forget to put things on the list. Every time we go to the store, it seems there are things we need and I forget..lol

My daughter Briana said:

“You yell too much.”

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Guilty as charged on all three so far….yelling is my way of getting my point across after I have already said it numerous times. I think most people do this when they feel ignored, I am trying not to do it all the time now so I don’t raise my blood pressure.

My youngest son Devon said:

“You leave lights on too much.”

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Okay, so this is my light in my office…I tend to leave it on every time I leave my office but I am coming right back. He goes behind me and turns every light off..lol

As for me, I think my worst habit is:

“I warm up to people to quickly without getting to know them from the background.”

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What I mean by this is, I have met a lot of people in my life and because I want to assume the best in them, they become a part of my life without me really seeing who they are in many different situations. I am one of a few women who do not have many close friendships with people due to the fact that many have shown their true cards on the table after they see that I am a nice person. I am a positive person and do not like drama, so for me to become friends with you, I expect that you show me who you are before I find out. Communication is a strength f mine and most people who know me, know I mean what I say and do. I am not transparent and what you see is what you get.

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That’s all I got for you today…stay tuned for Day 20 tomorrow. Don’t forget to

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31 Day Challenge-Day 13

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My favorite quote comes from one of the most beautiful, smart and talented educator and poets of all time. Maya Angelou believed in being true to yourself and seeing others the same way. She said that people tend to hide behind failures and things that are displeasing but in life she believed success came with growth and learning from what you didn’t succeed in.

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If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.” -Maya Angelou

I love this quote because it sets the foundation on how people need to live their lives in order to be satisfied with themselves. Most people don’t realize that most of the complaining they do is a waste of fresh air and can be solved by just focusing on something different and changing the circumstances for which they are unhappy with. I think of this quote everyday as a mom and wife who is looking for growth within myself. I know that my happiness is no one’s job, for I am in charge of my own destiny and path along with God and if there is something I do not like I have the power to change it. You also have this ability too. Have you ever wondered why people can solve one problem but not others. Most people are used to being comfortable with what their circumstance is and they are afraid of the unknown or being a different person. Maya Angelou promoted self-growth, change and progress…life goes on.

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31 Day Challenge-Day 7

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  Yummy, Yummy….time for my 10 favorite foods!! I don’t know about you but food is just so good especially when it is prepared just the way you like it!! I love food and I wish I can eat some of these things that are on my list but because I have gotten older and systems aren’t working like they used to, I have to minimize or eliminate these foods from my diet.  I hate it. You watch everyone else eat it freely and not get sick but me totally different story.  So, without further ado, I am going to tell you what my dream meal would be if I could have it all at once….here it goes..

  1. Pizza Image result for free stock images of pepperoni pizza      My favorite is Little Cesears Extra-Most Bestest with double pepperoni!!! I don’t eat it a lot now anymore….that pesky heartburn.
  2. Hamburgers Image result for free stock images of hamburgers          My favorite is the BIG MAC from McDonald’s -2 all beef patties, cheese, pickles and special sauce…they also had the triple for a hot minute…OMG…drooling right now…lol.
  3. Ice creamImage result for free stock images of icecream           I love ice cream whether it is hard or soft, flavored or plain, on a cone or in a bowl.  My favorite flavor is butter pecan.
  4. Spaghettinoodle-clipart-spaghetti-bolognese-697605-4654121[1]           I learned how to make spaghetti as my first lesson in cooking by my dad.  We used ground beef back then but now we use ground turkey and add all the peppers and onions to it. When I was learning to make the sauce we used Ragu…needless to say we couldn’t use the other half because I put it in the cabinet instead of fridge..oops my bad.  I don’t fill my plate all the way up like I did as a kid…I think my stomach shrank…lol.  
  5. Fried Chicken food-2202359__340[1]  “Love that chicken from POPEYES”   There is something about chicken and how there are so many ways to make it.  I like it fried, baked, barbecued and even canned. 
  6. Eggs1516313382596288659free-clipart-scrambled-eggs.med[1]                                                                            All I need is a couple pieces of bacon and some toast…lol  I love scrambled eggs and even omelets made with all kinds of ingredients including cheese, mushrooms, choice of meat and peppers.
  7. Macaroni and cheese with baked beans

    This here a meal in itself.  I usually eat the Kraft Mac and cheese with baked beans together and this is so delicious. 

  8. FruitsImage result for free stock images of fruits                                                                            Fruit is a great substitute for anything in sweet snack category.  Most of the fruit I eat in blended into a smoothie which is so good for a quick breakfast or lunch.  My favorite fruits are bananas, pineapples, mango, strawberries and grapes.  I just recently had to cut some fruit from my diet because of hot flashes…which are no joke. 
  9. Polish Boys030_54_990x660[1] The ultimate hot dog on a bun, with polish sausage, french fries, coleslaw, and a grilles special choice of barbecue sauce….mouth is watering again…lol.  I was introduced to these in my hometown of Cleveland, Ohio and when I tell you they make some awesome polish boys…I ain’t lying.  I used to eat 2 in one sitting, now I have to eat one…that pesky heartburn. 
  10. Greens and Potato Salad

        Okay, so, last but not least…yes it is a vegetable.  I love potato salad and collard greens together.  The potato I make from scratch with potatoes, eggs, mustard and paprika.  For some reason, the store bought salad doesn’t do it for me.  

 

  Well, that’s all I got for you on my 10 favorite foods.  I know while you were reading this you went into the kitchen or thought about getting one of these items for dinner to eat. 

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31 Day Challenge-Day 2

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Okay, so today you get to learn 20 facts about me you didn’t know…this should be interesting..lol Here is goes

  1. I enjoy the beach and ocean but am deathly afraid of drowning due to the fact I never learned how to swim.
  2. Most women love to shop, I hate shopping. I can’t stand the long lines, spending money I don’t have, the in and out of the car runs and especially using the bathrooms in public…yuk.
  3. My favorite colors are black and red.
  4. I am a big fan of antique and fast cars, I don’t collect them but I like watching the shows where they have collectors buy them.
  5. I love to dance and sing, although with dancing I am limited to my upper arms and shoulders because of my back and knees.
  6. I do not like politics of any kind. I don’t like talking, debating or even watching the news about it.
  7. I worked in the industry of Retail grocery and distribution for over 25 years. This field is the reason I am now disabled.
  8. I have depression and anxiety along with bi-polar disorder.
  9. I have a degree in Business Management.
  10. I am a mother to an Autistic child.
  11. I am learning how to play the guitar-not ready for a band yet, though…lol
  12. I prefer hot to cold weather, although I sweat alot.
  13. I once drove my Camaro along the grass during construction on the freeway for 2 miles to get to a bathroom and didn’t get pulled over. I had to go bad..lol.
  14. I love celebrating people’s birthdays.
  15. I am in the process of writing my first book.
  16. I don’t like negative people, I stay away from them.
  17. I get motion sickness when I ride in the car so I sit up front.
  18. I had only one boyfriend in my life and I ended up marrying him. We are going on 20 years.
  19. I didn’t get my ears pierced until I was 40 years old. My mom said finally…lol.
  20. My one-year anniversary for my blog is coming up in September 2019, I need to reach my goal of 500 followers so don’t forget to…

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