31 Day Challenge-Day 15

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Working life….where I was these last couple years….

  • Up at 1 or 2 am to start work at 3 or 4 am.
  • Get to work and kill myself for 12-15 hours a day
  • Eat breakfast on the way to the first client…drive time at least an hour and half
  • Eat lunch in the car on the way and snack in between clients
  • Sweat through my clothes and get to the point where the 3 pm slump happens…I’m tired.
  • I wrap up my last clients up around 5 or 6 pm
  • Call my husband when I am on my way home
  • Get home, take a shower and eat dinner
  • Say goodnight to my kids and go to bed at 10 or 11 pm, if I didn’t have homework
  • Start all over again the next day…

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    I never did get to where I wanted to be, but I learned that you have to love what you do in order to be happy. God had other plans for me.

And now…Retired Life….

  • Up at 1 or 2 pm maybe 12 noon on a good day
  • Wash up and proceed to open the curtains for sunshine
  • Wash the dishes
  • Eat breakfast
  • If scheduled work on my blog for at least 5 hours
  • Eat my lunch through blogging hours
  • On Tuesdays, 5$ movie days we will see a movie if interested
  • If I am not feeling pain from arthritis, pain in my back or it isn’t humid outside, I will walk 3 miles with my husband around the lake for my Physical Therapy
  • Prepare my dinner (Our teens are now self-sufficient so they prepare their own meals now)
  • Watch some sporting event or movie with the hubby or have date night
  • Me and hubby take our dog Sage for his walk around 11 pm or 12 am
  • Watch a television series while falling a sleep around 2 or 3 am.

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My favorite quote by Maya Angelou

   So, as you can see, a big difference in my life this past 8 months since I retired.  I love the freedom of coming and going as I please and having a great support system in my family.  I knew I had to make a change because I wasn’t happy making others dreams come true.

That’s all I got for you until tomorrow …stay tuned for Day 16 and don’t forget to:

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31 Day Challenge-Day 1

    Hey guys!! How are you? So, yes, I am starting a new challenge which I have never done before except Black History Month when I had to come up with a new history fact for 28 days.  I love challenges so I am embarking on a writing challenge for 31 days where I blog about random facts about myself.  The fun thing about this is that it will test a person to see how well they know themselves.  Let me introduce you to:

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   So, let me introduce myself, I am LaFrieda and I am the owner of MMMoffamilyentertainment and I am a wife and mother of three and I live in Lakeland Florida.  I was originally born and raised in Cleveland Ohio,  the Heart of Rock-n-Roll, which is probably why I love rock-n-roll so much.  My favorite bands are Journey, Led Zeppelin and Eagles.  I also love R&b, country, jazz and pop!! In my free time, I love to write and attend movies, which is why I am an entertainment writer.  I am recently retired due to disabilities and have decided to make the most of my life by living it everyday despite my limitations.  As I said before, I took on this challenge to write for 31 days and want you all to get to know me a little better.  That’s all I got for now, don’t want to give away to much, now would I..lol? 

    If you would like to join me in the 31-day Blogging challenge that would be awesome!! I would love to read more about my fellow bloggers.  Give me a shout out by messaging me and I will send you the prompts if you don’t already have them.  Let me know in the comments what you think and don’t forget:

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My life as a mom…making it easier on myself

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  Moms lets face it we have way too much to do everyday and we think there is no way to make it easier…actually, I have found alot of ways to make things easier on myself.  Meet me and my teens…

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  My kids are now teens and I thought it would be easier as they got older…nope…it just gets more difficult to communicate to your family that you need help.  I have a disability, so everything I do daily centers around making sure that things get taken care of around the house.  Every once and awhile, my teens amaze me and do something without asking.  I love being a mom but I am so tired all the time.
   I am getting a lot of request from moms about how I come up with all these ideas to make things simpler in my household.  So I am going to share with you 5 tips on how I manage my daily maintenance with 5 grown people in the house….
  • Tip #1  Everyone knows that laundry is a pain and if you could do less of it you would, right? Everyday, I heard from the kids “Where are all the towels?” or “Every time I go to wash up there are no towels?”  Someone would be assigned to them and wouldn’t do them so I got frustrated with them using our whole inventory of 15 towels in one day so I reduced everyone to a lovely beach towel cloths.  My husband loves Star Trek so special ordered it, I have the Tiger because I love them, Briana has a doggy because she loves animals, Devon loves wrestling so I special ordered the All-stars WWE and Jr. has the Patriots, which is his favorite team.  These do not absorb water and can be reused over and over until they are dirty.  We only do the wash cloths and hand towels which is so much better.FB_IMG_1558746059035
  • Tip #2 Writing notes around the house…very important!!  For some reason, saying it and writing it gets two different results.  From air conditioner settings, to trash and recycle to driver safety.  We are recycling now to use less trash bags and it saves a lot of money.  If anyone has teen drivers, the S.M.I.T.H method will help in guiding them in checking the right things when getting in the car.  I came up with this when my oldest started driving 5 years ago and now I use it for my daughter.FB_IMG_155874606473120190523_112835[1]
  • Tip #3  Cleaning supplies have gone down to bare essentials.  I have found that the chemicals are too toxic to me, pets and the environment, so I only use Vinegar, Water and for tough stains baking soda.  To clean messes off counters we use the towels given to us from the Florida Tropics soccer game we go to.  Make sure you keep Clorox wipes to clean off phones since they have more germs than a toilet seat.FB_IMG_1558746069653
  • Tip #4  Kitchen cabinet organization is a must!  I had to redo all the cabinets because I could never find anything.  It helps when putting groceries away.FB_IMG_1558746074875
  • Tip #5  Last but not least…please have monthly family meetings.  We set up who does chores and talk about what is going on the next month.  Communication is important in a house with many people, always include the children’s input.  Chore charts for reminders and schedule times for work and activities are marked down.FB_IMG_1558746080218

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Here are some books available online to also help moms with making their lives a little easier….

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Mothers….the reason for our existence

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From pregnancy…to birth….to boo boos, to first day of school🎒, to first date💑, to graduation🎓, to weddings💃 and Grand kids👶👧…we are so extraordinary for our strength day-to-day. So In honor of Mother’s Day I ask my mothers……
“What is the one thing you treasure most about being a mother?”
      “The one thing I treasure most about being a mother…..
   I love when I can be a part of every aspect of my teens life. Every emotion from happiness about making the team, to sad when they get a bad grade after studying hard, being heartbroken over a crush and being super excited when they get accepted at the college they wanted to go!! When I have seen my children from birth experience life and I can be there to either celebrate their accomplishments or comfort them in their disappointments. As a proud mom…I love it!!”😍
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Mom of 3(2 boys and 1 girl), Entrepreneur and Blogger. 
Kate Scully20190411_094235
Mom of  2 boys, Entrepreneur and Health/Wellness Coach
 “Tough question! I would have to say the fact that I get to help shape two people who WILL be such a positive force in this world – and to truly understand what unconditional love is – motherhood is it ALL!”
Marquita Myrickmarquita
Mom of 2, Entrepreneur, Mindset Coach and Professional Coach
 “Just one? lol I treasure the teaching moments I have with my kids because I know that all I invest into them now will show up differently and refined to them when they’re older. I like knowing I’m a huge part of their foundation.” 😊  
Jennifer Kenneljennifer k.
Mom of 3 girls,  Owner of Confident Beauty by Jenn and Online Boutique Boss
  “Hmmm… Gosh, this is a hard question! I think one thing that I have come to treasure about being a mom is the relationship change. Like, I treasure all the memories of when my children were little. And, I miss those early years. Even my youngest, is 14 now and so I am not needed the way I once was.. I don’t get many of those, I want to cuddle mom, she’s the best, coolest person ever moments.. But, since my oldest has moved out and started living her life on her own, there is more understanding, more respect and appreciation. Not to mention, she comes to me as one of her best friends, not because she has to, because I am her mom.. But, because she wants to.. She loves me, she trusts me, we are real friends and even though I am not needed the way I once was.. I am still needed and seeked out, on a different level now.. <3″
Laura Luly Bortos56436490_10218780624168361_4128594840071962624_n
Mom of 2 boys, Entrepreneur and Holistic health enthusiasts
 “That I get to teach and guide my children every day and watch them grow.
Chris Tina50524840_10217666600077882_5511358676255899648_o
Mom 1 daughter, Entrepreneur and Holistic lifestyle advocate
  “Wow, there is so much. I love the unconditional love, the ability to grow every day and be a better person than I was the day before, getting a chance to being a part of my kids journey,...💕💕💕”
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Mom of 2(1 daughter, 1 son) Life and business coach & Int. Speaker
  ” Being able to be a kid again!! As a mom of a boy I treasure seeing him grow into a loving romantic gentlemen not afraid of his feelings and always seeing the little boy he will never grow out of. As a mom of girl I treasure playing dress up showing her how to do her make-up running and playing outside doing Cartwheels and Flips, and practicing her cheer routine.
Being a mom is the most wonderful person to be!”
Erica Nicole48411805_10217750444169948_3847503816257699840_o
Mom of 2 (1 boy and 1 girl) Moderator for Liberated Ladies
  “Hearing my kids laugh and have fun.”
Mea Rivers55869319_10215988168194300_5480793468479471616_o
Mom of 1 daughter, Owner and Manager Of Care Circle LLC
  “Knowing that Genesis loves me no matter what, my flaws and all.
Being able to raise an African-American woman to be anything that she wants to be, although challenging but she has the opportunity.
Looking into her eyes and know that God chose me to bring this angel of love into the world to make this world a better place just by having her here…
Oh you did say one thing” 😂
Gabrielle Clark56962007_335649737091543_9012966068674625536_o
Mom to 1 daughter, Entrepreneur and Jewelry Queen
  “EVERYTHING. I love my daughter so much.”
Deborah Johnston Craig52692450_10157074951927899_7822436537638846464_o
Mom of 2 (girl and boy) and School Teacher
  “That whatever my kids may be feeling, whether good or bad, they come running to me. I’m their safe place.”
Erica Thompson41141711_10212441973034900_2458191516451995648_n
Mom of 2(1 boy and a girl) and Owner of Latte Creations
“Hmmmm my two little ones showing me how much they love me.”
Nicole Obeshinenicole 2
Mom of 1 son, Certified Healer of Postpartum and Blogger
 “All the wisdom and knowledge that Dylan teaches me. He is in the moment, free from judgement, and honors who he is and how he feels.”
Margo Wooten34639_135858823107403_4699330_n
Mom and Grandma
  “Treasure ? My time alone to go to pee in peace when my husband is home from work.”
Valerie Padilla31957252_10213045322060135_1592534535751335936_o
Mom of 1 son, Entrepreneur and Empowerment Advocate
“I live the ability to be a role model for him. I love teaching him to be protective, influential for others and how to be great being himself. I love it when he calls me mom, I love cooking for him and I just love everything about being his mom.”

I want to thank all these ladies for answering this question for me…you all are truly amazing!! If you would like find out more about these mom check them out on Facebook and Instagram

 

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 Thank you to all Mother’s on this day…you are truly appreciated!! Happy Mother’s Day!!
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Its New Years Eve🎆 and its My 41st Birthday 🎉and I am feeling so good!! My love and I are going to dinner🍝 and late, late night pool🎱music🎶 and drinks!!🍸 Everyone stay safe this evening and HAPPY NEW YEAR!!🎆Lafrieda Smith❤

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